This question is one we could all do without.
We learn in life that we are happiest living without ever having to say “I should have, could have, would have”. If something crosses our mind, we chose either to do it or not, say it or not. If our intuition says yes, follow it and either do it or say it because you chose to, and want to, not because you “should” or have to.
Doing something out of duty, out of some misplaced sense of rightness leads to negativity deep within ourselves leaving an imprint in our Luminous Energy Field, or aura. This in turn opens up the possibility of weakness in our LEF which in turn opens us up to ‘dis ease’ which can manifest on many levels through physical sickness, or emotional self disgust as we once again find ourselves doing something we don’t really want to do.
When we decide to do things from choice, from the heart, we have stepped into service. Service for ourselves, our friends, our local community or our global community. This changes the energy around the choice into something positive instead of negative. All our choices ‘should’ be made with/from our intuition and then we cannot steer wrong. If we go with the flow, let go of all attachments and allow the universal energy to guide us along our chosen path, life happens. A life of goodness, happiness, health and myriad possibilities. Miracles can happen as we experience the river of positive energy flowing with us, carrying us along with no resisitance, only joy. This, we should do.